Finishing Schools, dear readers– they are popping up everywhere. Groups of people meeting to hold each other accountable and help each other with the goals most important to them. It’s spreading.
Indeed, the following cities around the US are having their first meeting this month:
- Austin, TX — Nov 2
- Albuquerque, NM — Nov 4
- Boston, MA (after a false start last month) — Nov 19, 20, or 21 (TBD)
If you’re interested in attending any of these, give me a holler. If you want to start one in your city, same deal. It’s an exciting time to be working on your goals.
We’ll be back to your regular scheduled programming soon. Of course, tomorrow’s the 2-year anniversary of the Seattle Finishing School, so it may be few days
All the best,
Cal Newport wrote a book about succeeding in high school when he was in college, a few books about succeeding in college when he was in grad school, and, now that he’s graduating, he’s– naturally– turned his attention to success in the working world. The book is called So Good They Can’t Ignore You.
If it’s not clear from the fact that he’s had four publishing deals before the age of 30, Cal Newport is good at life. From the very first time I read his blog, it was clear that he was a nerd in the best sense– someone who, given an interesting problem and enough time, could simply think unthought thoughts– and then produce value from them.
Cal does something interesting with these thoughts. Something incredibly simple and powerful. He names them.
I’ll take the bait. I’ve read a lot of Cal’s strategies and postulations in the last two years, and some of them have stuck with me since the day I first read them. Here are a few of my favorite idea’s of Cal’s, including a bit on the book at the end.
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Failed Simulation Effect
This is perhaps my favorite advice from Cal’s older writing. It’s about how to be “impressive”. And his idea goes like this:
The things that sound the most impressive are not the things that require the most work– they’re the things that are the hardest for someone else to imagine doing.
Let’s dissect that. Let’s imagine, as Cal often does Read More
Almost two years ago, I went to Seattle’s Zig Zag Cafe with a handful of friends, acquaintances, and strangers on a Wednesday night to discuss the things we most wanted to do in life.
It was a group we called The Finishing School, and we’ve been meeting almost every month since to discuss what progress we’ve made on our life goals. Whether it’s learning the cello, meeting a personal hero, or losing 15 pounds, we hold each other accountable and help each other however we can.
In fact, that’s really what the Finishing School is– an accountability group for your life goals. And given enough interest, I’d like to start one in Boston, Massachusetts when I visit next week.
Here are the details:
Monday, October 8th
Location TBD in Boston/Cambridge
If this sounds interesting to you, let me know– I’ll make sure to include you.
Personally, I love the Finishing School. We’ve grown to be great friends and accomplished some really cool goals– goals like writing a novel, climbing Kilimanjaro, and yes, we even had two members whose goals included “fall in love and get married” fall in love. And get married. To each other.
If you want to join the Finishing School starting in Boston, MA, contact me.
Patrick Rhone, author of Enough and Mac Minimal, talked about the Finishing School in his most recent podcast. It was interesting hearing his thought process in deciding to start a Minneapolis/St. Paul Finishing School. The sentiment that stuck with him the most was this: something worth doing at all is worth starting tonight.
Boris Taratutin, an engineering student in Massachusetts, saw my guest post about living life like an experiment at The Art of Manliness and is getting together with a group of his friends to talk about self-reflection behavior changing. Their first tenet is based around this question: what’s the smallest step I can take now?
Running a marathon. Learning to rock climb. Reading for self-education. Learning Krav Maga. The experiences that led me to start this blog happened only because of this question: how do I start tonight?
I used to write a lot of music. I wasn’t majoring in music– heck, I wasn’t even in college when I learned, so I had to find other resources to teach myself– websites, books, scores, any mentor who would listen to a green 16-year old’s stabs at polyphony. I ended up learning a lot from a centuries-old book called The Study of Counterpoint. It turns out it was the same text the young Beethoven studied. I still have highlighted a piece of advice from Read More
For everyone arriving at this blog from The Art of Manliness (a fantastic blog, if you don’t know about it), good to have you! My name’s Erik and I write about life goals. Feel free to look around– or here are a few things you might particularly enjoy:
What are you doing before you die? Here’s specific advice for creating a bucket list.
For the polymaths and renaissance men among us: the 4 commandments of reading for self-education.
Do you think networking advice seems sleazy and awful? Yeah, that’s why I tried this.
Feel free to contact me with any questions or feedback!